You have to get hurt. That's how you learn. The strongest people out there, the ones who laugh the hardest with a genuine smile, those are the people who have fought the toughest battles. Because they've decided that they're not going to let anything hold them down, they're moving on.
When you’re hurt, you end up not being in your right state of mind. Your emotions get so bottled up, they begin to build up, and then you get so frustrated. Sooner or later it will lead you to say things you don’t think about before saying them. But at the same time, it feels good to just let out all the negativity you’ve been holding inside. It’s the ‘wrong but feels so right’ type of feeling when you say those things you don’t mean to say.